I also pray for the caregivers. I am a map My mother was in a nursing home due to dementia during the last 6 yrs. I have been associated with a 100 beds hospital for quite a long time. Take her a cupcake and check out the full menu of poetic goodness being shared around the blogosphere this week. These are the cards God dealt me, There's nothing I can do. When you see an elderly person looking for a place to sit,Get up and offer your chair so he or she can sit in it. The poems capture the dignity in old age. I traveled, married, and worked long hours until I lost my health. I loved this. In the United States, the number of elderly adults over 65 is projected to grow from 47.8 million in 2015 to 87.9 million in 2050 as the Baby Boomer generation ages past 65 years. So far I like the pop culture references. Treat me with respect, the same I'd give to you. After the poignant poem and story/celebration of Daisy, I cant help but remember my dear grandmothers and great aunts who made my life special in ways it would take a book to write, Jama. Senior Devotional Encouragement for the elderly is just a click away with these devotions for seniorswhether you're at home or in a nursing home. Of the mostly forgotten many When you see an elder anxiously trying to cross a busy road,Help him or her across; youve no idea of the gift youve bestowed. Don't try to make me understand. 7. The Old Mans Comforts and How He Gained Them by Robert Southey: This humorous poem tells the story of an old man who is content in his later years because he has learned how to enjoy lifes simple pleasures. What a surprise to get to the end of your amazing post and discover I won the Ghinga book! Caring for the elderly can be a daunting task. John Burningham (Mr Grumpys Outing, 1970). For my young are all rearing young of their own, nurses and their aids throw up their hands screeches and moans rolling eyes and amputees chains and bonds invisible around each neck nails each retiree to bed and floor's vomit crumbs of breakfast dancing on the aged beards nonstop ambulances with reeling red and blue bulbs no guests dare the trip inside barred by mind and smell Oh, look its 2:15! Click here to upload more images (optional). Sorry to hear that they tested positive for the virus, but what a blessing that they are asymptomatic. O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be understood as to understand; to be loved as to love. And accept the stark fact that nothing can last. The term 'care' is used loosely. Its a reminder that we should cherish our memories and hold onto them tightly. As an aide we are just looked over as if we are a "slave" to their every need. Do you have some pictures or graphics to add? Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window), Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window), Click to email a link to a friend (Opens in new window), Click to share on Tumblr (Opens in new window), Click to share on Pinterest (Opens in new window), Click to share on Reddit (Opens in new window), Click to share on LinkedIn (Opens in new window), Click to share on Skype (Opens in new window), Click to share on WhatsApp (Opens in new window), honoring our elderly with a pair of poems (+ a specialbirthday! . I am sad and sick and lost. . Remember to include your full name as the author. I'll tell you who I am as I sit here so still, With wrinkled skin and such gray hair? And eat PIE. by Internet. He doesn't show any signs of recognizing me or hearing me. Has long been left behind. Let these poems inspire you to reach out to your elders wherever you encounter them. Bound to each other with ties that should last. Ask me anything the insouciance of that, and the verity behind it is just beautiful. These caregiverexperienceshave prompted many to write poems about elder carerelating to those experiences. Glad you enjoyed the post, Janice, and congratulations again (sent you an email)! Yes, we are thinking when looking at thee Cant see her in person. I would've loved to hear your mom tell the story about her special day in 1952! Dear Angie, Blessed are they who know my ears today Must strain to hear the things they say. Just as her heartening words suggest, we must follow the lead of our wise elders by rejoicing in simple pleasures and cherishing each moment as it comes, with gratitude that its been given. I look in the mirror and see or unaided in a slow and ponderous shuffle, Were you touched by this poem? Wow. Christmas edition of the News Magazine of the North Ireland Association for Daisy is a beacon of hope and light this week. Touched by the poem? I needed a poem for my English class. I Want To Go Home Take Me Home My father was locked in on an Alzheimer's unit of a nursing home. How life changes. Said the little boy, sometimes I drop my spoon. . Yes, you cant take your eyes off the bears for a minute! Remember by Christina Rossetti: This beautiful poem looks back on a life well lived and urges the reader to remember all the good times, even as they get older. Entering your contribution is easy to do. Sometimes he loses control over his bladder and wets the bed. Select it and click on the button to choose it.Then click on the link if you want to upload up to 3 more images. Until his life was taken by a gun. Make sure your happy messages are generic and nonreligious, for example "Warmest wishes" or . Lord, make me an instrument of your peace. Get the Poem of the Day delivered right to your phone! Too Slow for those who Wait, When I went searching for paintings featuring senior citizens, I was struck by how many of them pictured people walking away. With bathing and feeding, the long day to fill. I was 53, he 54 when the complications of Alzheimer's took him. That is when the tears fell. So here I am, no family left, as loneliness weighs heavy on my chest. How you look so grand. Great! When old age arrives, we are often unprepared. The number of elderly adults (over the age of 65 years) entering nursing homes is expected to increase in the upcoming decades. Grandfathers, grandmothers, fathers, and mothers Visit bentlily for more. Glad your rehab is behind you and that youre doing better. I hope you will enjoy the poems aboutelder care I've selected to share with you. Poems about Growing Old Aging is a natural process of life. I always tried to make them feel special in every way that I could. EVERY life, regardless of age, is PRICELESS. these wrinkles are imprints A worker barges in my room, As if it's no big deal. When I was a child, my home was a nursing home run by my parents. I was tearing up at the last lines of Lindas poem, smiling at the crinkled lines of love in Daisys face, saddened again by the paintings of elders walking away, then laughing at the couple trying to figure out their computer! Work Poems Dont Quit by Edgar Albert Guest: This poem looks at the theme of not giving up, no matter how old you are or what difficulties youre facing. STOP! Cancer took my husband, he had it in his bones. Thanks to a post by JessieBelle, one of our AgingCare Caregiver Forum members, we recently came across one of these legends in the form of this poem. Now she returns with a tightly focused collection that never veers away from its subject matter: the inner-workings of a nursing home. So you've heard the story several times beforePlease listen very closely, oh don't try to ignoreThey were sons & daughters, moms & pops tooTheir care and well being is now trusted to youThey once had full lives, raising families and suchThey worked and fought battles not asking for muchNow that they're older and as hard as they've triedThey can't do the things they once did with prideHelp them be happy, compassion always chooseRemember, all will eventually stand in their shoes. Janice N. Harrington's debut collection, Even the Hollow My Body Made Is Gone, won the A. Poulin, Jr. Poetry Prize Contest and the Kate Tufts Discovery Award. It was complicated, horrifying and exhausting. Choose happy and eat chocolate Suggested General Messages Wishing you weeks worth of smiles! Blessed are they who Elderly Sayings to Cheer Seniors Up. Inspirational Quotes For Elderly In Nursing Homes 1. This poem has reminded me to take better care of them and show them much love, even though they can't say anything. Comment * document.getElementById("comment").setAttribute( "id", "a3df304ca16aea585d5161f054c741f9" );document.getElementById("e218d56cc5").setAttribute( "id", "comment" ); Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. So I went. I took care of the Elderly & was very proud of my work. As long as you love me, as long as you care, I will stay by your side be your companion, your friend and guide Valentines Day Messages for Senior Citizens 5). Thank you. And thank you, Linda, for sharing your poem and mom with us this week!! but I am waiting to be found, I am a treasure , We send our best wishes for your good health, safety, and strength plus at least 100 virtual bear hugs from Mr Cornelius and the Alphabet Soup furry kitchen helpers . Do you have a poem on the elderly or eldercare that you've written? I watch my fake teethSwimming in a glass as theySilently judge me. I asked my mother "how will I know when to leave?" "You'll know," she told me. And this is the story of Rose, my adopted grandparent and what her eyes seemed to be saying to the world. Its a lighthearted look at aging and a reminder that we should always find happiness wherever we can. All you need is love. I guess theres lots of symbolism there . If you have a medical issue or concern, please consult with your doctor or medical practitioner. After all, it was a nursing home the Life Care Center in Kirkland, Washington that first warranted our serious concern about COVID-19s community spread in the U.S. back in late February. It begins the moment we are born. I always asked myself how I would want someone to treat my parent if I could not be there. This poem brought me to tears. I said "Hi Dad!" and the woman jumped up, gave a loud screech and ran off. And she would show me her picture when she was a young adult. Just started Summer of 69 unusual writing style (my first Todd Strasser book). 8, 9 In several states, the number of elderly adults is expected to at least triple . P.S. Here I lie in bed again, Awaiting my next meal. I took care of her as long as I was able; then was persuaded by the Authorities to entrust her to the Care professionals. A very Happy Valentine's Day to you. I haven't got a clue. I wrote this at Christmas. Ireland. I hope that the ones taking care of her are really taking care of her. All stories are moderated before being published. I do love the idea of treasure to be found and dancing with slow joy. My eyes are fine; they are just printing words small. 18. The culture of caregiving is no exception. PLEASE REMEMBER I'M A PERSON TOO. Uncle Victor's senility seemed comic then. of all that I have seen She finds herself drawn to them and overwhelmed by their heartbreaking stories, and she vows to help them in any way she can from that moment forward. Where the residents such as dementia and Alzheimers sufferers, inNursing homes,Elderly Care Facilities,Retirement Communitiesare not able to read the poems by themselves, a facilitator or presenter is needed. Famous poems give residents the opportunity to join in, if they can. I'm now an old woman and nature is cruel; I admit I didn't know Shel Silverstein until I bought a couple of sheets of stamps with his name on each stamp and a silly little sketch of a cartoonish little girl. I wholeheartedly agree. What do we see, you ask, what do we see? The presenter doesnt need to be a trained presenter. I love the way you used the words. I am currently caring for and have two care givers looking after my 80 year old mother. I press my light to see a face, Or just for company. But it takes a turn towards the end, warning that youth is fleeting and urging us to enjoy every moment while we still can. I will remember to always stay kind to the patients and give them my time to keep them happy. Im listening to myself. I always respected my residents and my private clients and demanded that everyone else did. Can You Get Disability If Youve Never Worked. These poems are sure to bring a smile to their faces and remind them that they are still valued members of society. Happy Birthday, Daisy!! Aging is a natural process of life. When you say in a loud voice, "I do wish you'd try!" To My Old Age by Margaret Sidney: Written by an author who was 70 when she wrote it, this poem is a heartfelt tribute to growing old. For my young are all rearing young of their own, My grandmother had dementia and she didn't respond to anyone. but me. It is about one heart touching another. No hugs. I also really hope she makes it to 100 we were blessed to see my dad celebrate his 100th and he even managed to live 4 years beyond that milestone. Poetry is a powerful way to connect withsenior citizensand theelderly. know my ways Samantha Reynolds is many things: entrepreneur, mother, wife, collector of great friends, and, yes, a poet. Some poems are written by the elderly themselves while others are written by caregivers, whether family or professional. If not for the roots your elders put down,None of this would have been conceivable.So thank them for their love and care,Because with these gifts, anythings achievable! A lovely post, Jama thanks for sharing! So open your eyes, nurses, open and see, I know he can hear because he jumps at loud noises. But maybe I can use thisTo get out of things I dont want to do,Like mowing the lawn and washing the car,And scrubbing the toilet too! At forty, my young sons have grown and are gone, But my man's beside me to see I don't mourn. Its a reminder that every day is an opportunity to grow and learn something new. You might also like to read: 40 Inspirational Uplifting Dementia Quotes. The cherished ritual of afternoon tea took on an added poignancy as I thought of those who no longer have the joy of a last dance to look forward to. I have waited quite a long time to get old. Upload 1-4 Pictures or Graphics (optional). Oh my God! . The Old Peoples Home by Evelyn Sharp: This short poem follows an elderly woman as she visits people in a nursing home for the first time. and that way, winding. THANK YOU FOR THIS AMAZING POEM!! world, is now the author of this simple, yet eloquent, poem traveling the world Let us visit again , Someone's caregiver ! Published by Family Friend Poems July 2008 with permission of the author. One nurse took her copy to 14. A Song for My Mother by Katherine Mansfield: This touching poem is a love letter from a daughter to her mother, full of appreciation for all she has done for her. Now my mother is in the same place and shes turning 100 on June 3rd. I read it twice, more slowly the second time. We hope you enjoy it! Have vanished now from sight. Profanity : Our optional filter replaced words with *** on this page . I am rare. Though Rose has since passed away I think she would be proud to know what a great inspiration knowing her had on my career as a full time writer of Poetry & Prose. I know I can not talk, Or even joke around. But I'm well aware of everything, and also every sound. Share your story! When you see me sitting quietly, And I would give it to her. 20. The Elderly Lady by Edwin Arlington Robinson: This poem looks at the struggles facing an elderly lady who has lost her loved ones and struggles with dementia but still finds hope in the present moment and herself. Oh Jama, youve done it again. 13. Our operating costs are covered by advertising, online store sales, participating providers, and senior care partners. 19. Blessed are they who Warm wishes on this beautiful day to you. So lovely, to touch hearts. Caregivers Need to Care for Themselves as Well 3. I love it all, but especially the Reynolds poem. She actually still lives at home alone though two of my sisters live very close and one is a nurse who checks on her daily. They enjoy this ritual One always lives in this Will I slowly wither like a leaf When I Am Old I Shall Wear Purple by Jenny Joseph: This fun poem looks at all the things an old person can get away with that a young person couldnt, like wearing outrageous clothes and saying whatever they want. Thanks for reading, Samantha. Skinny fingers clawed in monstrous shapes, But a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt! This poem really hit home with me. They have had sorrow and they have had joy. Off my soapbox now . She finds herself drawn to them and overwhelmed by their heartbreaking stories, and she vows to help them in any way she can from that moment forward. It aches my heart, but there is nothing I can do as I have no say in the matter. That falls upon the earth? I have so many old and new memories this post evoked. Still, its especially tough to be isolated and not be able to socialize with other residents or visitors. never say content of simpering, My bones are stiff and achy, I hear you say I'm contracted. She would give me money to buy some traditional soft sweets that we could share. So true, Patti. at the end of the play, I am the hours tucked in the drawer the other day. Sadly, it wont be quite the celebration wed always planned. My favorite painting is Devotion. I love that Samanthas poem honors wisdom, and the tipsy bears crack me up. Glad you enjoyed the poems and art, Karen. This book-length collection of . What are you thinking when you're looking at me? Copyright 2020 Jama Rattigan of Jamas Alphabet Soup. The occasion of Valentine's Day inspires us all to stay young and stay romantic in life. We tend to shut them away You can wrap a word in square brackets to make it appear bold. Published by Family Friend Poems February 2018 with permission of the author. Beautiful Poem. Touched by the poem? I imagine your memories are a mixed bag of good days and bad days when you visited your mom. They each Said the little boy, sometimes I drop my spoon. a procession of chairs and walkers, To receive credit as the author, enter your information below. Select it and click on the button to choose it. (1), They have spent their Life gives everyonechallenges, especially as they grow older, so why notjoke arounda bit and look for the humor in each situation as it comes? Dreaming that soon now a lover she'll meet. This is what my daughter wrote I am very proud of her, love daddy. at the end of the play summarizes what I think of my mom. My grand father is 80 years old. Oh Jama, what a fun and poignant visit. I have tears in my eyes as I read your post, Jama! Scotland, it was felt that she had nothing left of any value. Patricia A Fleming. 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